A blue playbook on a green football field in a youth scrimmage.
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Every generation inherits a democracy that wasn’t built for them. What’s different now is that we’re finally asking why.

For 250 years, we’ve treated civic life as something young people graduate into, a reward for reaching an age generations past decided mattered. Eighteen. Twenty-one. Thirty-five. The message has always been the same: wait. “Mature” into your seat at the table where the decisions about your future are already being made. This was always a convenient arrangement for those already seated. But that is not a democracy; it is a queue.

When people are excluded from the decisions that shape their lives, the conditions of those lives reflect that exclusion.

Gen-Z (ages 14-29) trust in government is at historic lows. Seventy-five percent of mental health challenges begin between the ages of 14 and 25, and suicides are the second leading cause of death for the same age range. But these challenges don’t appear in a vacuum. They arrive alongside rising temperatures and sea levels, activate with each active shooter drill or anticipatory ICE raid, in schools where identity itself feels like a liability. And still, there is an estimated 20-year gap between the average age of a member of Congress and their constituent.

These struggles begin precisely in the years we’ve decided young people should be watching, not participating. Youth understand what’s happening to them with a clarity that adults—insulated by distance, habit, or power—often don’t. What youth have been denied isn’t awareness. It’s agency.

When people are excluded from the decisions that shape their lives, the conditions of those lives reflect that exclusion. This is not a coincidence. It is how exclusion works. And we are losing young people earlier than we acknowledge. They are asking at jarring rates, “Do I even matter?”

A Democracy Problem 

This is, fundamentally, a democracy problem. When the people who bear the consequences of a policy have no hand in shaping it, policy reflects the limited imagination of those protected from its costs. It optimizes for the wrong things and arrives too late—treating symptoms while the root causes go unnamed, because naming them would require listening to the people we have decided don’t yet have the standing to speak.

Something is shifting. In 2024, world leaders unanimously signed the UN Declaration on Future Generations, committing for the first time to long-term governance and meaningful opportunities for young people to participate in the decisions that shape their lives.

In 2025 in Deschutes County, OR, a civic assembly centered young people with lived experience of homelessness to produce policy recommendations the local government committed to act on. And, in San Mateo County, CA, the Board of Supervisors became the first jurisdiction in the United States to pass a resolution affirming that UN Declaration, citing youth mental health and youth civic participation as its driving causes. These are admissions that the closed boardroom of adults deciding what communities need is losing its legitimacy.

In the heart of Silicon Valley, the Futures Commission, an intergenerational governance initiative with youth at the center of community decision-making, is activating that same principle from the ground up. The people who understand these conditions most clearly are the ones living inside them. What began as a response to the escalating youth mental health crisis became something larger: a question about who gets to design the future, and where that design work actually happens.

In San Mateo County, we saw a direct connection between the youth mental health crisis and the decline of third spaces, play, and agency. Seventy percent of youth athletes quit their sport by age 13. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, “high-pressure youth sports environments can lead to a loss of enjoyment and burnout.” Our governance systems, like sports, built around youth were never actually built for or with youth.

What if we stopped asking what adults could design for young people and started asking what young people could design with us? Not as inspiration. Not as a focus group. As decision-makers.

“Futures on the Field” 

In response, we launched “Futures on the Field,” where sporting venues become innovation incubators, where athletic skills transfer to futures-resilience skills, where policy solutions are designed by youth for protopian futures, and where power shifts from behind closed doors out into the open air.

A sport becomes a systems-thinking exercise. A policy solution emerges from a game. A teenager learns to call the play—not as metaphor, but as practice for the actual work of shaping what comes next.

A young person’s understanding of their own life is worth more than an adult’s theory about what they need.

Like sport, democracy must be interactive, exciting, impactful, and fun to survive. Every modality belongs here: movement, dialogue, design, outdoor space, collaboration. But none of this works if we don’t go where the gaps actually are. To the communities that have been systematically unheard—the youth who have the most at stake and the least access to the rooms where decisions get made. They have a voice.

It’s up to us to extend who is in the space, and to expand the conversation about what that space is for: what the neighborhood is for, what the budget prioritizes, what the next generation inherits. That expansion has to be intentional. It has to go to the youth, not wait for them to find their way to us.

Adults have a clear role, but not the one most institutions have been playing. Not director. Not expert. The role is coach. Collaborator. The person who creates conditions and then gets out of the way.

This matters beyond principle. Peer-reviewed evidence finds that when we think about and take action toward the future we want, anxiety and depression go down, while hope, agency, connection, and purpose go up. That shift separates a program that helps some kids to a model changing civic participation—and who it’s for.

This anniversary is an accounting, not a celebration.

Because civic identity doesn’t switch on at age 18. It forms—or fails to—in the years before. In the third-grade classroom where a question gets taken seriously. On the field where a teenager learns they can lead. In the moment an institution decides that a young person’s understanding of their own life is worth more than an adult’s theory about what they need.

At 250 years, the United States is celebrating a document that made radical promises and has spent the centuries since deciding who those promises actually apply to. We are marking this anniversary as voting rights—won through generations of sacrifice, through the Civil Rights movement, through people who gave everything for the right to be counted—are being dismantled in real time.

We know this is wrong. And we have to ask the harder question: what comes next? Like sport, when the game is going south, we huddle. We pivot. We switch out the players. We change our strategy. We must go beyond defending what was won and set a course for where we want to go 50 years, 100 years out—intergenerationally and collaboratively for the long game. Young people have been part of that work across all 250 years, building and sustaining communities that formal democracy abandoned. This anniversary is an accounting, not a celebration. The question it should force every governing body and institution to ask is simple: are we finally ready to build decision-making structures that include everyone living inside them? The future is not something we hand to young people when we decide they’re ready.

Let’s rewrite the playbook, the players and the plays with youth now.